Music and Family
For this assignment, I chose to interview my 79 year young grandma, who I call Mimi. She is one of the funniest and sweetest people I know and she always has stories to tell so I thought she would be fun to interview. She was the second oldest daughter in her family of 7 (she loves to tell stories of how it was growing up in a two bedroom house with 3 sisters and a brother.) She was born in 1946 right as World War II ended. Her father had just come home from deployment when she was born, so they had a unique bond. Her household was “ran like the Navy,” according to her. This was due to the conservative culture and religious expectations her family had. Because of this, music was only enjoyed at church while she was growing up. She told me she loved to sing the hymns at church even though she couldn’t carry a tune; she loved being able to praise with her friends and family. Her favorite hymn was “How Great Thou Art.”
When she began dating my grandpa is high school, she started to rebel a little bit and go skating and dancing (I know! So scandalous!) where she listened to music from the jukebox. She liked Elvis, The Beach Boys, Chubby Checker’s “The Twist” which she taught me how to do when I was a toddler.
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Her favorite song during her adolescence was “Brown Eyed Girl” by Van Morrison because this was the song my grandpa dedicated to her. I remember my grandpa playing this song for me and talking about how much he loved his brown eyed girl, referring to my grandma. When my grandpa was in hospice, Mimi colored pictures for him out of her coloring book and signed them “Your brown eyed girl.” This song is very difficult for me to listen to now because it reminds me of how much my grandpa loved Mimi.
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Mimi told me this period of music was highly influential in her life. This was the first time she listened to music for enjoyment and let herself have fun with it. This music also reminds her of when she was dating my grandpa, which is why she still listens to it to this day; it is a way for her to hold onto memories of my grandpa. This was bittersweet to hear because grief is such a complex feeling. It made me happy she had this music to listen to but it also made me sad to realize how much she misses my grandpa. We got to bond over this habit of listening to music from different times of our lives because I like to listen to music I listened to when I was young to reminisce on my childhood.




